Rolling with it
By Rayne In the beginning of our relationship, we were monogamous. M wanted to keep me to himself, and I wasn’t able to deal with my significant other having sex or a relationship with someone else....
View ArticleNegotiating Monogamy
By DNGG One of my biggest pet peeves is listening to people talk about other people’s sheep-like tendencies or “privilege” while failing to acknowledge their own. Recently, there’s been a lot of talk...
View ArticleExperiments for Better Sex: Part 2
This article is a continuation of Experiments for Better Sex: Part 1 So now for the specifics… 1. Identify The first thing you have to do is take a good look at your sex life and identify what’s going...
View ArticleThe Monogamy Myth
Kate Bornstein wrote about the modern imperative for identity in her landmark book, “Gender Outlaw”. Identity is the “need to belong” to a recognizable group, and in her opinion, this is particularly...
View ArticleIs Monogamy Natural?
As I continue to grow and evolve, my perspectives often change and expand. This is normal for anyone who is a seeker of truth. The rabbit hole of knowledge is an infinite bottomless pit that expands...
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